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What is the Human Nous?

Chapter 1 from Patristic Theology

by Father John Romanides

The chief concern of the Orthodox Church is the healing of the human soul. The Church has always considered the soul as the part of the human being that needs healing because She has seen from Hebrew tradition, from Christ Himself, and from the Apostles that in the region of the physical heart there functions something that the Fathers called the nous. In other words, the Fathers took the traditional term nous, which means both intellect (dianoia) and speech or reason (logos), and gave it a different meaning. They used nous to refer to this noetic energy that functions in the heart of every spiritually healthy person. We do not know when this change in meaning took place, because we know that some Fathers used the same word nous to refer to reason as well as to this noetic energy that descends and functions in the region of the heart.

So from this perspective, noetic activity is an activity essential to the soul. It functions in the brain as the reason; it simultaneously functions in the heart as the nous. In other words, the same organ, the nous, prays ceaselessly in the heart and simultaneously thinks about mathematical problems, for example, or anything else in the brain.

We should point out that there is a difference in terminology between St. Paul and the Fathers. What St. Paul calls the nous is the same as what the Fathers call dianoia. When the Apostle Paul says, I will pray with the spirit,[1] he means what the Fathers mean when they say, I will pray with the nous. And when he says, I will pray with the nous, he means I will pray with the intellect (dianoia). When the Fathers use the word nous, the Apostle Paul uses the word spirit. When he says I will pray with the nous, I will pray with the spirit or when he says I will chant with the nous, I will chant with the spirit, and when he says the Spirit of God bears witness to our spirit,[2] he uses the word spirit to mean what the Fathers refer to as the nous. And by the word nous, he means the intellect or reason. Continue Reading Here!

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Towards A Theology Of Psychotherapy

by Fr Nikolaos Loydovikos

Concluding Summary From the Book ”TOWARDS A THEOLOGY OF PSYCHOTHERAPY”

I believe the time has come to consider as an utmost priority the crucial need for a spiritual grounding of psy­chotherapy. Psychotherapy, in its contemporary form, con­stitutes an anthropological enterprise which intentions, in the West, have, for some time now, transcended the confines of a
mere therapeutic intervention into behaviour and ­through its many «Schools» – beacons expectantly for participation in a quest which deals with the very being of Man and the Cosmos. It even purports to present a practically holistic interpretation of Man, his destiny and civilization (culture) (for people like Karl Gustav Jung or Karen Homey have shown us, for example, that neuroses have to do with the very foundations of the identity of a civilization). Thus, it is important to point out that in this holistic approach, which also aims at an absolutely practical, empirical intervention into the Being of Man, psychotherapy becomes once again precisely «theo­logical». To wit, this reminds us of what was always un­consciously present in this quest, aside from incidental «metaphysical» fabrications attributed to psychotherapy from time to time: the archetypal Christian Theology itself as a direct attempt to assume the suffering and fragmented human being as his «salvation».

Of course, such a parallelism with theology must be limited only to some of the intentions of psychotherapy and only to its spiritual content – here ambiguity and arbitrari­ness (aside from the openly admitted atheism or beliefs of their creators) often prevail. It would also be very naIve for one to affirm that the various psychotherapies once had or have now the same credibility with religion regarding their accomplishments, – especially due to the disproportionate broadening of their promises: «self-realization», «self-­fulfillment», «self-knowledge», or «self-liberation», and other such, which accompany the promise for psycho­logical health in our days, transforming analogously the orientation and techniques of psychotherapy. Despite this, few guarantees or proofs are offered by these various psychotherapeutic «schools» for a genuine (and universal) therapy (especially given the 2/3 automatic healing of most neuroses after about one or two years). Thus, it is quite difficult for one to maintain for the «scientificity» of these torrentially multiplying «schools» and techniques – it is not by chance that even the classical psychotherapeutic text­books attribute only a 10% scientificity to these techniques, in contrast to a 20% for the hypotheses used. Such being the case, it is more than easy for the theo­logian (especially one who tends towards fundamentalism) to simply reject wholesale (as «unscientific») these various psychotherapies, beginning right from the start with Freudian psychoanalysis. In the present book we shall maintain, nevertheless, that another stance is much more efficacious: the attempt towards a theological, ontological uncovering of a possible common spiritual identity amongst schools of the psychotherapeutic phenomenon which could somehow correlate with fundamental theological notions. Such a venture possibly involves, as we have said, a dis­cretionary critical theological engagement of certain psy­chotherapeutic theories in order to enrich them spiritually; this of course does not mean that theology also has nothing to benefit from the gleaning of acute empirical psycho­logical observations and conclusions often provided by psychotherapy. On the pages of this book three fundamental theological notions are proposed tentatively which could (as they comprise the content of the proposals presented on the part of the other side also) constitute bridges between theology and psychoanalysis especially – although, as we shall see below, these bridges could be valid for other forms of psychotherapy also. These three notions presented here are: Desire, Catholicity and Eschatology. These three notions are not the only ones which could play this «bridg­ing» role; they belong, however, to the very nucleus of (indeed, quite patristic) theology and for this reason we may commence with them. Let us, however, review our con­clusions in brief.

In our first text we saw that the notion of Desire as it described in its subjective functioning according to Lacan, correlates with the theological notion of «natural will» as this is presented by St. Maximus the Confessor. Naturally, there are many who see in this «correlation» an anachronism or, much worse, egregious apologetics; but nothing is farther from the truth, at least as far as the intentions of the author are concerned. It simply happens to be a fact that major spiritual movements manifest a remarkable resilience throughout time; their subsequent resonations continue to travel through strong subliminal or subterranean currents over a period of centuries. Therefore, this is not so much a matter of scrutinizing literary sources (although, doing so, especially for Lacan, could easily expose him to certain «mystical» spiritual currents), rather here we must build up a solid, universal spiritual framework which endures the passage of time and bears fruit over and over again, regard­less of the various names and forms it may take on. Isn’t it precisely in this key that Whitehead claimed that all of western theology is a series of afterthoughts on Plato?

Be that as it may, the notion of Will – Volition/Desire continues for centuries now to be a permanent feature within the backdrop of Christianity. This is what was attempted to be shown by the author of these lines in an older book (Closed Spirituality and the Meaning of Self). This means that WilllDesire constitutes a foundation for ontology and especially anthropology, albeit in a different way, in the Christian West as well as in the Christian East. Therefore, it is not at all surprising that Maximus the Confessor and J. Lacan meet exactly at this juncture; indeed, such a situation is well nigh spiritually fateful… Having made these comments, however, we perhaps must legitimately return to our subject: In Maximus, then, as well as in Lacan, the subjective being – through – Desire, exists by embodying the Desire of the Other as his own; it exists, we could state boldly, interpenetrating (a la homoousion) the Other as an indefinite cause for the Desire and its infinite goal. Thus Lacan, can be placed at the pinnacle of the Western quest for an ontological foundation of the subject and for its communion simultaneously – a quest indeed most biblical in its ,(unconscious) roots. However, in Lacan the «symbolic castration», that is to say, the process of humanizing the subject, has had its torturous existential side-effects, for the subject can never return to its imagined lost fullness, for its Desire confronts Structure, Language and the Other within the dreamy imaginary remnant of the lost maternal bond. The fact that the subject comes to being, in the game of Desire, in the place of the Other, comprises, on the one hand, a unique opening, from the point of view of Western inter-subjectivity, but this, however, is not the most successful solution to its plight. Despite the absolute ontological necessity of the Other for the making of the human subject, the relation with the Other does not cease being traumatic, difficult and dangerous for me. The trajectory of Will/Desire towards communion (or, accord­ing to theological terminology, the Homoousion) is, on the one hand, given, but characteristically difficult to attain to. The result of this is, in ontological terminology, that even in Lacan absolute communion is not placed completely in his «primary ontology», except perhaps as its trauma, as its unattainable horizon. This is because Lacan, as often is the case for every «typical» Western intellectual, tends to al­ways see Desire also in relation to Power and quite rarely in relation to the weakness of the Cross. According to this typical Western stance, then, Desire must serve the in­dividual goal, i.e. personal self-realization ultimately (and due to this the Other always will revolt at some point or another). Here Desire/Will is not conceived of in its natural connection with genuine and ontologically primal com­munality which exists as an end in itself and thus as a fundamental element of «primary ontology», a structural element for the individual Being. If we accept this second perspective, which is that of Maximus, a whole asceticism (the Cross) comes into play in order to attain to that love which does not merely incorporate by force the Other, but interpenetrates within the Other freely and according to the type of the homoousion. Accordingly, the theological «correction» of Lacan on this point (if we, by chance desire the passage from psychoanalysis towards theology, not in order to produce a Christian psychoanalysis but in order to give psychoanalysis a wider anthropological horizon) could perhaps be worked out by placing Christ in the place of the Other, and in this way natural Will/Desire emerges as pure, i.e. objectless. The Desiring faculty, as the yeaming for the Whole within me (i.e. a yeaming for the Father or for other people) is here actuated in crucifixic love. Christ, as the Other, desiring the Desire of the Father [«so that they may be one as we are one» (John 17:22)], is He in the name through which Man acquires a pure desiring, without a specific name, which can hold all things together, and thus Man perceives all people and things as if they were his very existence and body.

This is further explained in the second text of this book where the notion of Catholicity is dealt with to an even greater extent, thus correcting and expanding the psycho­analytic experience on this subject. Specifically, the notion of «intra-inter-co-being» is developed as a theological commentary on the psychoanalytic experience of inter­subjectivity. Directly before this, though, we deal with the psychosomatic dimension of Man as an «incorporated brain» based on contemporary cognitive science and neuro­psychology, this in spite of philosophical and theological idealism; and then the parallel experience of the Eastern mystics such as that of Symeon the New Theologian and Gregory Palamas are presented. In this way the experience of God involves the body and is communal as a transferal of the Trinitarian Homoousion by grace to the Cosmos, to human experience but also simultaneously into history, as actuated and active Catholicity: this allows us to posit a theological definition of the individual subject, for which psychoanalysis would certainly not be uninterested. The ontological foundations of psychoanalysis as an eschato­logy of a biblical type are studied in the last part of this book with the aid of a critical understanding of the psycho­analysis of Wittgenstein, Ricoeur and Kastoriades. The phenomenon of the unconscious is seen to constitute the field for an inter-subjective quest for meaning, which leads to this eschatological capability of self-re-creating and giving content and meaning to the human self within an ascesis of communion which allows him to isolate the fundamental «relational structure» which makes him up as a being. The unconscious thus is no longer a sort of mythical being at the very periphery of the subject, but rather a real given, an alive entity actively meeting with the conscious of the other in the light of which it is «inter­preted». Psychoanalysis is thus raised to the point of being «theological», precisely through this eschatological open­ing in relation to the subject, an eschatological stance which incorporates a series of fundamental biblical anthropo­logical givens.

The existence of an eschatological «terminus» or purposefulness is also perceived in Adler’s system in the form of the constant struggle of the subject to attain certain social goals, as well as that of Jung, as expressed in the fundamental human need for meaning, ultimately for spiritual meaning, or, even more to the point, the need for religiosity and for transcending as the primal collective archetype of the subconscious. It is also obvious in the psychotherapy of Rank, well known as «will therapy» which allows for the overcoming of the primordial angst or de­pression caused by being separated from the womb, as well as in the thought of Homey, where she adopts a sort of revelatory character as being intrinsic to psychoanalysis, in that it aims towards, on the one hand, the demonstration of distortions caused by a false idealized image of oneself, and, on the other hand, an emergence of the true self, which is usually totally paralyzed by the overbearing system of a blind ego-centrism.

Of course, where this «theological» eschatological version of psychotherapy excels is (despite the sometimes openly admitted atheism of its adherents) in the so-called existential psychotherapy from R. May to I. Yalom today, where the desperate quest for a personal goal in life constitutes a clinical discovery and reason for fundamental angst. Of course, it is not by chance that, for a psycho­analyst of the caliber and influence of Karl Rogers, the only inherent instinct in Man, besides the satisfaction of his biological needs, is the charge towards self-realization. Here an unmitigated, unrestricted self satisfaction is isolat­ed as allowing for such a self realization in opposition to the so-called «value conditions», that is to say the condition within which individual appreciates himself only under certain conditions, i.e. only when he responds to certain objective value criteria which have been internalized – and also in opposition to the stress that this condition causes.

Thus, every psychotherapy (here we may place the vast majority of most known psychotherapies) which searches for an ultimate meaning or the conditions for a genuine, true and full self, over against, to remember the also vastly significant D. Winnicott, the various masquerades of the «false self», marked by various neuroses, is, summarily, in the long run, an echatological type of therapy, with obvious theological underpinnings. So much more for the reason that within such an «eschatology» the vision of an exist­ential Catholicity is often annexed together with the liberat­ing experience of the restoration of the full human exist­ential «Desire».

Thus, in these terms, certain theological ontological presuppositions are presented allowing for a critical, spiritual exposition of psychotherapy on the part of theology. This, of course, is not done for the sake of creating an «Orthodox psychoanalysis» for this could not occur for the reasons explained in the prologue of this book and, furthermore, because we cannot reduce our relation to God to a mere therapeutical «method» or «technique», thus glorifying modem utilitarian individualism. However, this reception can occur as a spiritual and anthropological enriching of psychotherapy by people who are capable of accomplishing this with discretion. An enrichment which, besides, could be in part mutual, due to the experiential accuracy of some of the aforementioned theoretical and clinical observations. A Theology of Psychotherapy could be initialized in this way, aiming towards enlightening more precisely psychotherapy’s darker ontological recesses; in order to free it from arbitrary metaphysical judgments, in order to lead it to an ever deepening discovery of the limitless horizons of Man, who in his freedom and his creativity «images», as biblical language reminds us, God himself. This is expressed as the eschatological reality which in its turn manifests the Christological «anthropo­logical apophaticism» of eastern patristic theology. And this is exceedingly valuable now when, in every possible way, it reminds us that we do not yet know what Man is in his fullness. Man is a being which (in Christ) is in a process of becoming (regarding his manner of being) and not merely «is»; in the eschaton, when we shall see the source of Being «face to face» (I Cor. 13: 12), then «we shall understand completely»; not only will we know God but Man also. The Church, in its grace-centeredness, apophatic and sacro­centric hypostasis, along with the neptic and philokalic self-­consciousness which this brings about, constitutes a deep source of «information» for the coming «full human being» (according to Maximus the Confessor). Psychotherapy, at another level, is a small part (together with Philosophy, Art and Science) of this long-term «building up» of the Man of the eschaton which is now in process. This is the mystery which is revealed in its limitless apophatic richness especially in the great mystery of the Incarnation, that is to say, in the living Person of Christ himself. This theological engagement of psychotherapy will enrich it and «humanize» it but also: it will manifest the deep unconscious «theo­logical» character of every fundamental psychotherapeutic enterprise as they all aim, in the final analysis, for the liberation of Man, to the elevation, on the level of the deep freedom which is, at least according to the Greek Fathers, the characteristic of the very divine image within Man, the «image of God» in Man’s nature. Indeed, the attempt to safeguard and raise the freedom of Man ultimately constitutes the deepest theological trait intrinsic to psychoanalysis, but also to every psychotherapy, and is precisely this very freedom (now seen in absolute ontological terms, which relate ultimately to the eternal Being or Non-being of Man), which is the sole content of the spiritual struggle of theology. .. Thus, in the light of this theological stance, the psychotherapeutic way may be justified and find its true goal.

Regarding the actual form this theological justification of psychotherapy could take on and the kind of spiritual reformation this latter would undergo, certain texts of Gregory Palamas could very well serve as guidelines, such as his work «Hyper ton Jeros Hesychazonton» (<<On Those Who Practice Hesychasm in Holiness») (1: 1 :9), a text which deals with the transfiguration of natural human know­ledge connected with the proper «secular knowledge». Just as in the case of these two, psychotherapy, in the same way, «can never become spiritual per se, except if it is combined with faith and love of God; rather except if it is reborn through love and the grace coming through love. Thus it is transformed from what it was, it becomes new and divine, pure, peaceful, forbearing, obedient, full of words which build up those who hear and it produces good fruits which can be identified with the very wisdom from above, God’s wisdom. And being spiritual in this way because it is obedient to the wisdom of the Spirit, it recognizes and accepts the graces of the Spirit».

«Spiritual», therefore, in the end,. is that psychotherapy which knows and accepts, as the ultimate «natural» content of the human being, the graces of the Spirit of God.

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Marriage as a Spiritual Path

Stephen Muse, PhD, LMFT

a Gregorian Fellowship member

The purpose of life is not to resist it or to indulge in it, but to live. As St. Ireneaus in the early second century observed, “The glory of God is a human being fully alive” as we see in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Marriage as a spiritual path moves along the “narrow path that leads to life” between these two extremes where the Divine Energies and the vital sap of daily life in the world converge. The Orthodox Church holds marriage in honor as a Mystery of the Church—a means of Grace uniting heaven and earth—where the word and action of the Lord turn ordinary water into the wine of the Spirit creating an effervescence in the soul of the partakers.

Gospel evidence is that both men and woman greatly loved Jesus and at times wept for him and he for them. The stories he told were life-transforming and expressive of Divine love always in the ordinary conditions of life. Whether he was playing with children or scandalizing rule-bound uptight religious authorities by departing from prescribed rituals, he was always affirming life. Through our Lord’s eyes and along his path, whores, adulterers, fornicators and “five-time losers” became saints, while the lack of love and mercy of the religiously pious was artfully exposed, so that they too might have a chance to find their way back from the living dead of self-righteousness to the bright sunshine of sobornost where, as it is implied in the Lord’s prayer, the neighbor is one’s own self. In Christ we have the supreme paradox that he who was most pure practiced the greatest economia so that untouchables and outcastes as well as the social elite found themselves drawn to him, testifying by their responses that he was already in them, hidden like a seed waiting for the right conditions to be called forth and germinate.

What is often overlooked, is that whatever dimension of love we are talking about—philos, agape or storge— eros is the root of them all. Eros is the wellspring of the soul’s deep yearning for communion with God as well as the energy of repentance,[1] both of which are a turning toward the Beloved and a free embrace of the primary condition of authentic human life which is made explicit in the prayer, “Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” As St. Anthony observed, it is only through obedience to God that I can become myself. Obedience to God is nothing other than God’s own love pouring through us for the whole world and every living creature in it. This ecstatic love is the heartbeat of every healthy marriage.

Eros is best demonstrated and most perfectly evidenced in the Passion of our Lord who loved humanity and all creation enough to lay down his life for those he loved. With regard to sexuality, Christian Tradition has from the beginning acknowledged two paths: one celibate (which includes monasticism) and the other expressed genitally in life-long fidelity of marriage. Both paths honor the beloved community and are expressive of Divine love that suffers willingly in order to bring forth abundant life in which it rejoices. Marriage and monasticism are both paths vowed to God and to the world, each involving the interplay of ascetical restraint and full blown erotic yearning, though lived out in different conditions and expressed in different ways.

As Orthodox Christians, in discussing marriage and sexuality we must begin with fullness of life, with the recognition that the saints are those who are most fully human, most capable of love, mercy and forgiveness, as evidenced by being most deeply rooted in both the genuine earthiness of their concrete selves as well as permeated by the Holy Spirit which enables them to appreciate and value the beauty and worth (as well as the weaknesses) of all persons. The mark of healthy eros in a follower of Jesus Christ is that he or she turns toward the world (and those in the world) with the passion which God evidences in Christ, the lamb slain from the foundation of the world for the sake of the world. The mark of a healthy marriage is that both partners in the marriage find one another anew in this way as each turns toward the larger community with the passion that God has for us all in Christ. “Seek first the Kingdom of God and all these things—including a healthy and long marriage—will be added unto you as well. But this is a matter of heart. For eros to be free to play, the heart must stand firm both in joyful celebration and in difficulty where hell seems to prevail. Otherwise eros can be diverted from its course, turning back on self (auto-erotic fetishes, various forms of self love, vainglory, and spiritual hedonism) or on others without recognizing boundaries (adultery, fornication, judgmentalism, and turning the particular into merely a manifestation of the abstraction of “woman” or “man” rather than a person). In either extreme, the body, starved of the vital nourishment of the Divine energies, begins to dominate the soul with its various cravings in the form of afflictive passions.

The Islamic mystical poet Rumi observed, “Wine got drunk with us, not the other way around.” The created order cannot be what it is meant to be without the human heart and mind honoring and reflecting the Image of the Creator in every person. This is why we joyfully embrace the boundaries of ascetical restraint, whether in celibacy or in marital sexual fidelity in order to make room for the joy of feasting on Divine Grace. When Russian Orthodox theologian Serge Bugokov summed up Patristic counsel to, “Kill the flesh in order to acquire a body” he meant, avoiding the enstatic compulsive slavery of drunkenness, licentiousness, avarice, pride and other sins so that the heart can be ecstatically free for the joy of the virtues of fidelity to our vow (whether married or celibate); poverty (with regard to eros diverted to material possession or spiritual hedonism) and obedience, (which is love’s surrender of self-will and self-indulgence for the sake of the Beloved).

The human heart is made for ecstacy –the joy and sacrifice of love. In this way the body comes to know itself aright and all powers and appetites find their authenticity. In this, we are all priests who lift up the cup of salvation on a daily basis, earthen vessels pregnant with the treasure of the Divine Spirit, giving thanks and praying with our lives, “Thy will be done on earth (and in the earth of myself) as it is in heaven” so that Christ is conceived in us and can live through us that all may be one—husband and wife in marriage—and every marriage with the larger human community. In this way the bodies of sanctified persons at times evidence the glory of God even in death, exuding a fragrant myrrh that surpasses the finest perfume.

Bodily love, feasting, keeping vigil, praying, fasting, or dancing naked like King David before the Ark of the Covenant, are all fueled by Divine yearning for life-giving communion among God, creation and humankind. The slightest admixture of seeking to possess, dominate or seduce another – to have power over the beloved in any way – is rooted in fear and stifles joy; it is compulsive in order to overcome the shame inherent in actions that proceed apart from God’s blessing. This is always a violation of human freedom and a refusal to encounter the Beloved as a “Thou” who ultimately remains a mystery known completely only in and through God. It fragments and disunifies both the body personal and the body politic, reducing each to a mere abstraction, an “it, and so a commodity that can be used for purposes less than God intends and at our individual self-centered whims. Spiritual growth is arrested.

Contrast this with the outlook of St. Symeon the New Theologian who describes how his spiritual father, Symeon the Pious, was not ashamed in the presence of his own or anyone else’s nakedness, “for he had the whole of Christ, he was himself and all the members of his body Christ, and he was seeing each of the members of the body of anyone else as Christ.” For St. Symeon, as for his spiritual father, this meant “we become members of Christ…the arm Christ and the foot Christ…do not say I am blaspheming…and my finger Christ and my penis Christ….”[2] Or St. John Climacus who describes someone of great purity in his own day, who when he saw a person with a beautiful body, was moved to tears and glorified God. St. John observed that such a person, if he always feels and behaves this way “has risen immortal before the general resurrection.”[3]

The passionate euphoria of “falling in love” doesn’t last because it is largely the result of chemicals that temporarily change the homeostasis of the brain. After a couple years, these chemicals subside and a different relationship is forged which is accompanied by a deeper commitment to one another rooted in real love that involves the deep will of the heart that is vowed to God. It is by intentionally and consciously remaining faithful to the marriage over a lifetime even through the dry times when we don’t have hormonal euphoria (just as we do in prayer when we don’t have the spiritual consolations that make it enjoyable), that we eventually grow beyond our neurotic conflicts into full humanity where the joy of eros is evident and we rediscover one another in a new and deeper way.

In light of this, the ideals of marriage offered up for popular consumption by Hollywood fail to inspire. Contemporary films in America portray love in terms of bodily appetites that lack moorings in the deep knowing, self-sacrificial care and life-long commitment that are part of the relationship between God and Creation which both marriage and monasticism are designed to preserve and enhance. Apart from a heart vowed to God and without the ascetical sacrifice that evidences such a vow, only lust results— depersonalized eros— the fizzle of heat in the body without fire in the heart and theosis does not occur. While the so-called “sexual revolution” has the appearance of liberation from restraint on the surface, it hides an atmosphere of shame-based sexuality that must be compulsive in order to bring together bodies without hearts and wills that deeply know, accept and are vowed to one another and the whole community in the presence of God.

On the other hand, in a similar way, the life-enhancing, joy-protecting function of asceticism is lost when it is not rooted in faith, love and humility. St. Basil observed “Asceticism without worship makes you a demon.” This is expressed in the false, distorted control whose motive is to provide artificial light for the ego while the heart remains small and frightened, e.g. “I fast therefore I am better than…” or in the lustful aesthete who is meticulous about observing the minutest details of the typikon of the Liturgy but fails to find beauty, goodness or value in the continuous daily Liturgy of the Divine creation and in the “living human icons” and their activities beyond the cycle of church services. All these are variations of the familiar trap of co-opting our Orthodox Christian faith and practice to enhance or preserve the individual ego rather than to free us from the domination of self-enslaving passions which bring souls into captivity to bodily appetites shorn from their place in the heart where they are fed by the pure springs of God’s Grace and transfigured, to enliven the world.

REFERENCES

[1] Capsanis, Archimandrite G. (1994) The Eros of Repentance. Massachusetts: Praxis Institute Press.

[2] Faros, P. (1998) Functional and Dysfunctional Christianity. Holy Cross Orthodox Press. P.116.

[3] IBID, P129, cited from The Ladder of Divine Ascent, Step 15. 60.

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edited from version first published in OCAMPR EJournal, Vol. IV No. 1 (March 2006) and submitted to Emerge! Journal for re-publication.

Copyright © 2008 Stephen Muse, Ph.D.

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Forgiveness as a therapeutic tool and the “Psychology” of the Early Fathers

Rev. Dr Adamantios G. Avgoustidis, Psychiatrist and Theologian

Forgiveness is one of the exclusive human qualities or attitudes, crucial to the basic make-up of the human person, especially when we speak in terms of the spiritual tradition of Christianity. Recent formulations define forgiveness as the opposite of resentfulness, rancor and hatred, entailing the relinquishment for justification and punishment. These issues, initially belonging to the ground of philosophical, theological or sociological speculation, appeared recently on the scene of psychological research and applications.

The reason for the concern of Psychology regarding “theological” or “moral” topics deals with strong evidence, which indicates these moral values to have an influence on psychological or physical health. During the early 60’s, forgiveness was valued for its psychotherapeutic effects in the treatment of alcoholism. Yet, the religious load of the concept haltered psychology from recognizing the possible therapeutic importance of its emotional content –even for alcoholism– at least until the late 80’s.

It was only around 1986, when increasing concern appeared in the medical, psychiatric or psychological literature, the concept having been almost completely neglected until then except for some considerations dealing with the treatment of anger. Nevertheless, literature refered to the healing “paradox” of forgiveness.

The initial effort to use forgiveness in the treatment of alcoholism extended to adults facing psychological disturbances and who had been victims of abuse by alcoholic parents during their childhood. Parallel to this, therapists working with individuals, who had been physically or sexually assaulted by their parents, began to wonder about the importance of forgiveness as a therapeutic means for the relief of those patients from the catastrophic tendencies that mastered the relationship between them and their ancestors. These approaches soon became very popular and many writings on forgiveness, addressed to the public or to the counselors, appeared on the scene. Publicity challenged other caregivers, as well. Questions about the therapeutic value of forgiveness arose, either in the area of physical health -as in cancer patients-, or in psychotherapy, as in strategic family therapy.

Today, an increasing number of researchers work on questions regarding the possible contribution of forgiveness to an effective psychotherapy when the therapist promotes the patient’s forgiving abilities. That is because, according to some references, the physical illness of some hospitalized patients is rooted in emotional ground. Their speculation is that many patients use their illness as self-punishment, while pertinent symptoms and break-down episodes stay as an unconscious avowal of their suppressed guilt.

What is new about forgiveness?

How new and modern are all these speculations? The purpose of this paper is twofold. One is to bring to light some ways of thinking and some information originating in early eastern Christian spirituality. The other is to discuss those issues within the framework of modern Psychology. One of the goals of this research is to show both, how an erring Christianity cannot help the human being, and how psychology may be restrained by its own methodology and predetermination.

The principal source for this study is the work of Saint John Climacus (6th century), known as “The Ladder of divine ascent”. Because of his work, which has deeply influenced the entire Eastern Christian spiritual tradition, the author is also known as “Saint John of the Ladder” (“Ladder”). The text is included among the most read and fundamental ascetic writings, comparable to the importance of theological compilations such as that of Saint Maximos the Confessor.

The writer of the Ladder represents the spiritual tradition of Eastern Christianity. In his work, John Climacus explains that, if someone wants to rid himself from the passion of anger and rage, first he has to struggle against the “daughters of anger”, named as “remembrance of Wrongs (resentfulness or malice), Hate, Hostility and Self-justification”.

In chapter 9, On Malice (on resentfulness), John Climacus argues that this “passion” belongs to the passions originating from other passions. This “dark and loathsome passion, it comes to be but has no offspring, so that one need not say too much about it”. He insists, however, that its importance should not be undervalued, “never imagine that this dark vice is a passion of no importance, for it often reaches out even to spiritual men”.

He suggests that people who can not cope with their raging memories and remain unable to erase resentfulness from their hearts could get a first stage of relief by trying to show to the “enemy” their repentance, even if it is only empty words. He believes that, even then, this manipulation motivates the subject to go through and become conscious of his/her malice. The outcome of doing so might be a realization of one’ s hypocriticism. Then, this self-consciousness can enforce an emotional change, since “if after great effort you still fail to root out this thorn, go to your enemy and apologize, if only with empty words whose insincerity may shame you. Then as conscience, like a fire, comes to give you pain, you may find that a sincere love of your enemy may come to life”.

Although this prescription sounds like an apparent simplification, it hides in its depth the core idea of a well-turned manipulation, that is on common use in contemporary psychotherapeutic technique. John Climacus, actually, proposes a therapeutic intervention that aims in bringing to the surface other deeper conflicts, by copying with the defense mechanisms like negation, rationalization and reaction formation that may characterize hypocritical behavior. His intervention starts with the conflicts closer to conscience, so resistance is softer and the acceptance of the unconscious guiltiness becomes easier. In the case of a successful fermentation, the resistance becomes less rigid, so the road opens to the approach of deeper psychological conflicts, hidden behind resentfulness, nourishing and sustaining it. It is worth mentioning that, in the Ladder’s words, “to forget wrongs is to prove oneself truly repentant”. In Greek, repentance is “metanoia” which means a change of mind (meta-noia).

Before the end of chapter 9, On Malice, the term “hostility” is used as a synonym of resentfulness. According to the Ladder, forgiveness is the proof of genuine repentance, because “to brood on them (the hated) and at the same time to imagine one is practicing repentance is to act like the man who is convinced he is running when in fact he is fast asleep”. This definition indicates a psychological differentiation between those two conditions. Hostility presupposes a conscious abomination and aversion when resentfulness functions either subconsciously or unconsciously, as “long-standing grievance (long stored resentment)”. That is how some people are “silently harboring resentment within themselves”. And, that is why the non genuine and conscious forbearance could only be the result of the intrinsic suppression of emotions which remain hidden and repressed, “long stored”, “harbored”.

John Climacus argues that the case when an interpretation of Christian faith is delivered under the possession of one’s resentful malicious interest it is proof of active (but unconscious) resentfulness. In his words, “Malice is an exponent of Scripture that twists the words of the Spirit to suit itself”.

It is this unconscious function of resentfulness and the suppression of the inner conflicts that maintain the anger in people’s souls, yet making them appear as devoted faithful, gentle and peaceful in their behavior. According to John Climacus as “worms thrive in a rotten tree; (so) malice thrives in the deceptively meek and silent”.

The aforementioned remarks about hostility stand for hate as well, the other “daughter of anger”, except for the fact that here we are facing full conscious resentfulness and hostility. Self-justification, the last “daughter”, had a particular meaning in the context. We must keep in mind that the text is initially addressed to the monks of a monastic community. In the Ladder, self-justification is synonymous to disputation in the sense of repentance negation.

From John Climacus’ “Ladder” to contemporary Psychology.

Modern psychoanalysis defines anger as the imminent emotional response to a physical or thinkable assault (i.e. primary anger) while hate is a secondary response that requires an internal process. This process includes chronic anger and resentment. Therefore, resentment, hostility and hate are the implications of anger (i.e. secondary anger). In John Climacus’ writings we meet a similar distinction, though he expressed himself in a more literary way. He personalizes anger and asks “him” to bring himself to light. In “his” answer, anger declares: “I come from many sources and I have more than one father. My mothers are Vainglory, Avarice, Greed. And Lust too. My father is named Conceit. My daughters have the names Remembrance of Wrongs, Hate, Hostility, and Self-justification”. What we have here is a case of deep psychological thinking, literately expressed, which, in fact, defines primary and secondary anger.

Moreover, the use of expressions like “long stored resentment” or “silently harboring resentment within themselves” refers to withheld, suppressed emotions. We could argue that, those expressions indicate John Climacus is aware of some psychological defensive mechanisms which psychoanalysis described almost fifteen centuries later.

Indeed, in the Ladder, one frequently meets expressions that could justify the writer’s awareness of what psychoanalysis defined as “the unconscious”. We can brand such strong indications where he points out the way passions and virtues co-exist. In his formulation, passions and virtues are interlaced: “When we draw water from a well, it can happen that we inadvertently also bring up a frog. When we acquire virtues we can sometimes find ourselves involved with the vices that are imperceptibly interwoven with them. … Malice with prudence, duplicity, procrastination, slovenliness, stubbornness, willfulness, and disobedience with meekness, refusal to learn with silence, … nasty condemnation with love… sarcasm with chastity. And behind all the virtues follow vainglory as a slave, or rather a poison, for everything”.

It took another fifteen centuries for modern western pastoral counseling, with the great help of psychology, to prescribe an almost identical process in order for one to achieve forgiveness. According to recent knowledge, the process starts when the subject recognizes that inside him (her) there is resentfulness and anger. The therapeutic procedure presupposes the overcoming of psychological resistance such as negation and repression of negative emotions, which darken the awareness of his (hers) own ill will. Some researchers split this first stage in two steps. The “hurt-stage”, referring to the recognition of the traumatic events behind resentment and the “anger-stage”, referring to the negative emotions of guilt which obstruct the individual to gain insight of the problem. The next step is the recognition of one’s own blame and guiltiness. The main obstacle to this development is the rationalized acceptance of an indefinite guilt, usually based on abstract, theoretical schemes of general sinfulness in a religious context.

The last remark is indicative of the negative impact that a distorted theological upbringing could cause. The idea of Christ being crucified for the gratification of Divine Justice leads to the inevitable question: If God himself demands a justification by His Son’s sacrifice in order to forgive the sinner, then how could a human being forgive one who hurt him before the potential forgiver got any personal satisfaction and justification? The theological tradition, to which John Climacus belongs, provides a crystal clear teaching on the issue. The Crucifixion of Jesus does not serve a legalistic satisfaction of Divine Justice. It is an absolutely free, willful action in order to combat the power of evil and unbar the way of the human being towards Resurrection. The principal question here is not moral but ontological. For the writer of the Ladder, the demand for justice and moral vindication, as we mean it in the social or secular sense, is almost of no importance during the ascent on the ladder of virtues.

John Climacus is an ascetic. His diligence focuses on the achievement of the highest virtues, such as humility, discernment, dispassion and love. Those are the assumptions of sanctity and salvation to him. It is worth mentioning that these “extremities” do not sound so peculiar today as in the past, thanks to psychology. J.M. Brandsma argues, for instance, that “forgiveness … often requires a humbling of the self to admit a dependency or to give up more or less, a defensively grandiose aspect of the self”.

The healing process integrates with the “blessing” of all those who harmed us. Even though this seems to be a satisfying end, the Ladder demands more than that. John Climacus believes that the criterion of being liberated of this “rot”, of this “putrefaction will come not when you pray for the man who offended you, not when you give him presents, not when you invite him to share a meal with you, but only when, on hearing of some catastrophe that has afflicted him in body or soul, you suffer and you lament for him as if for yourself”.

Genuine and false forgiveness

Psychology maintained, more or less, an aloof stance to what Christian forgiveness really is, suggesting that Christian courtesy constitutes a type of pseudo-forgiveness. Therefore, what seems to be a behavior of absolution is the underground of the interior resentful fomentation of the desire to revenge. John Climacus’ definition of what genuine forgiveness is, answers these objections with prophetic vigor. This kind of psychological interpretation shows a very limited capacity to apprehend the vast dimensions of self-transcendence a spiritually struggling believer has to achieve. The outcome of this narrow sight is an apprehension of forgiveness shrunk inside borders cut out by the function of psychological defense mechanisms, such as the reaction formation and so on. In that case, forgiveness is nothing more than a substitute of hatred.

Similar implications are generated from the apprehension of forgiveness as identical to guiltiness. This conception understands indulgence as a self-serving use of forgiveness on the purpose of the subject’s effort to avoid a potential failure of communication with the other person. In addition, forgiveness is identified with a defensive psychological function used by the subject in order to avoid potential conflicts and psychological traumatization. This attitude may also conceal conscious or unconscious trends of mastership or authoritarianism, while declaring -indirectly but with clarity- either the superiority of the one who forgives or the depth of the forgiven to the forgiver.

All these possible variations are out of the Ladder’s mentality. John Climacus declares that “to forget wrongs is to prove oneself truly repentant”, and genuine repentance does not compromise with any neurotic self-justification. He underlines that “a sign of true repentance is the admission that all troubles, and more besides, whether visible or not, were richly deserved”. Realistic or not, this kind of spirituality does not leave space for any kind of pseudo-forgiveness.

All of the aforementioned leads us to a crossroad, where we meet a crucial differentiation between what could be called patristic anthropology versus anthropology of psychology and their sociological and cultural projections. In other words, we arrive at the area where the truth and value of any theoretical presumption is tested. Indeed, the ideas and inspiration behind any philosophical, theological or psychological anthropology constitutes the takeoff that determines the human cultural guise and morale. The guise that is being shaped by values inspired from the contemporary anthropological stream, formented in the string of wrong or right psychological assumption or a genuine or warped religious faith.

Towards a therapy of malice

John Climacus does not propose any specialized “therapy” for resentfulness but the effort to overcome it in the frame of trying to fight the passion of anger by using the means of traditional eastern spirituality, that is, by one mainly trying to achieve repentance and humility. In his experience “the man who has put a stop to anger has also wiped out remembrance of wrongs, since offspring can come only from a living parent”, and, as we mentioned above, remembrance of wrongs, hate, hostility and self-justification are the “daughters” of “anger the oppressor”. He argues that meekness is a most effective curative factor, contributing to a successful confrontation of anger’s daughters, who obstruct the growth of forgiveness. We ought to have in mind, that John Climacus is rather indifferent to an extrinsic imitation of virtuousness with no intrinsic spiritual substructure.

Unlike what is thought to be self-evident in western Christianity, where the criterion of a proper behavior is an extrinsic one, rather unaware of any ontological or anthropological requirements, he does not interpret the passions with moralistic or legalistic criteria. At any rate, he does not underestimate the significance of the expressed behavior, especially when he compares a passion to its opposite virtue, because, he believes, it can be of great help in diagnosing or treating. In his words, “this sea (“the foul and bitter ocean of passions”) has to be stirred up, provoked and made angry so as to jettison onto dry land the wood, the hay, the corruption carried into it by the rivers of passion. Notice what happens in nature. After a storm at sea comes a deep calm”.

In our times, while Christianity has become a secularized, religious utilitarianism, meekness is apprehended as a value itself, a “must” of the pious behavior. But in the Ladder such a justification is unknown. Its author ignores any kind of self-justifying virtues. The battle for the conquest of virtuousness cannot be limited into the narrowness of an extrinsic behavioral calmness but it has to be extended to the conquest of other more fundamental virtues, which presuppose the “gymnastic” to acquire and consolidate meekness. In the eastern Christian tradition, meekness is not some kind of a release from tension, anxiety or hyperexcitability but an intermediate stage and a means in striving to achieve genuine humility. As Climacus quotes, “it is impossible to destroy wild beasts without arms. It is impossible to achieve freedom from anger without humility”.

The formulation of John Climacus on what is meekness sounds very interesting. He says that meekness “is a mind consistent amid honor or dishonor”. We can assume that he refers to vainglory, self conceit, arrogance, which are included among the “ancestors” of anger. It is obvious that for him -and Eastern Christian tradition at large- meekness is not just a pious behavior, but the externalization of an internal spirituality based on the possessions of a holy humility, which is not a pathetic but rather an assertive one.

Summarizing all of the aforementioned we could now suggest that what the Ladder proposes for the treatment of malice is “gain the placidy and meekness and you gained forgiveness”, an option which might be also acceptable from psychology as an end to its self. However, in the context of eastern Christian spirituality it is still nothing more than a prerequisite to the conquest of dispassion and love, these two being the end of a therapy aiming to a reconciliation and personal communication with God.

Ontology vs. Deontology

Even this very limited information allows us to defend that a basic difference between modern psychology and patristic anthropology is the lack of an ontological verification from the standpoint of psychology. This permits the formation of theories that interpret the human being’s functions and behavior in a dehumanizing context that neglects the complexity and the “humanity” of mankind. The implications of such simplifications can be observed in psychological theories, like in behaviorism or even in psychoanalysis, when they postulate to minimize the human existence within the limits of their speculations or interpretations.

We must be aware of the distance between the understanding of a certain behavior and its causal factors and the formation of dogmatic formulations about what a human being is, based on these partial understandings. It is worth mentioning that in this patristic anthropological approach, it is the ontological prerequisites that lead to the modulation of a certain morality and not the ethical laws.

Yet, a fundamental question needs to be answered: Is there any practical significance of all that information, derived from the very past? In what way could a writing of monastic literature, or even the patristic mind at large inspire the formulation of proposals able to be adjusted to contemporary life?

The answer could be easy. If we try to get into the “mind of the Fathers”, understand their anthropological prerequisites and the rationale of their therapeutic approach, then we may find ourselves facing answers standing above dualistic classifications of type modern-past, monastic-secular, progressive-traditional, liberal-conservative and so on. Kallistos Ware argues, it is wrong to believe that “the Ladder is of no interest to those in the “world”. Surely not. It has been read with the utmost profit by many thousands of married Christians; and, whatever the author’s original intention, there is nothing surprising in that. … Whether monastic or married, all the baptized are responding to the same Gospel call; the outward conditions of their response may vary, but the path is essentially one”. A genuine patristic text is characterized by its effort to seek and express possible ways for the faithful who seek to meet a factual evangelical ethos. This kind of a morality, based on love and not on abstract laws, constitutes the substantial component and the standard for a civilization that demands to be called Christian.

This suggestion might seem strange for those who believe that the human being is born evil in itself, and, unfortunately, the physiological or psychological determinism leans toward this view. But this is not in the spirit of the Fathers. John Climacus’ teaching is crystal clear on that issue:

God neither caused nor created evil and, therefore, those who assert that certain passions come naturally to the soul are quite wrong. What they fail to realize is that we have taken natural attributes of our own and turned them into passions. For instance, the seed that we have for the sake of procreating children is abused by us for the sake of fornication. Nature has provided us with anger as something to be turned against the serpent, but we have used it against our neighbor. We have a natural urge to excel in virtue, but instead we compete in evil. Nature stirs within us the desire for glory, but the glory of a heavenly kind”.

The most desperate quest of recent times is for values and criteria that could lead us to overcome the decay of cultural principles, and the rediscovery of patristic authenticity could be a treasure trove for that search. The attempt to lay the foundations for a dialogue between Theology and Psychology might bring up some crucial issues, such as the importance of humility as a cultural factor, of forgiveness in a world that starves for peace but does whatever possible to undermine it, for love as an existential achievement and not as bare sentimentalism, and so on. We may need to re-discover a type of asceticism for ordinary life. The data for this inspiration seem to be hidden for almost two thousand years in the forgotten old Christian writings. It is up to us to profit by it.

Source:  Orthodox Pastoral Counseling Center at Belgrade

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Psychotherapy to Spiritual Therapy

Lecture presented on 7th European Conference of Pastoral Care and Counseling

From Psychotherapy to Spiritual Therapy: Orthodox Pastoral Counseling Center in Belgrade

Aleksandra Sajkov, psychotherapist
Aleksandar Lukić, theologian

The loss of spiritual and social values and the crisis in human relationships lasted almost 60 years. This period was marked by the rule of non-Christian ethics and morality in our country. Moreover, thousands of families have lost their homes and loved ones, while hundreds of thousands have become refugees. This is the consequence of the disintegration of the Former Yugoslavia, the wars that followed and, unfortunately, the current Kosovo tragedy.

This situation resulted in appearance of a large number of spiritual and psychological disorders. Records of the center indicate the evident increase of depression, fear, drug and alcohol abuse, marital problems, identity and relationship problems, low self-esteem, emotional deprivation and adaptation problems (especially present in the population of Kosovo refugees and displaced persons).

Feeling the need for professional help necessary in the process of overcoming the above-mentioned problems, the majority of our clients sought help in medical institutions which do not focus on the spiritual dimension of personality and are not in the position to deal with spiritual problems. As a result, their services are reduced to minimal conversation and increased use of drugs. This kind of treatment often does not suit the needs of the clients and they do not get any closer to the solution of their problems.

As an alternative to this phenomenon, emerged the need to establish a center specialising in pastoral psychology which is the union between the healing sources of faith, contemporary psychology and psychotherapy.

Orthodox Pastoral Counseling Center of the Belgrade – Karlovci Archdiocese was opened in Belgrade on 14th of April 1997 in the presence and with the blessing of His Eminence Serbian Patriarch Pavle and with the approval of the Holy Synod.

The center was founded with the aim of providing psychological help given by Orthodox Christian experts, as well as an introduction to the basics of the teachings of Christ for the sick, the weak, the discouraged and the spiritually impoverished. Collaborators of the center are highly educated and experienced experts in the fields of theology, psychiatry, sociology and psychology, who apply their wide knowledge in everyday work. Currently, 24 collaborators are employed in the center on a permanent basis.

The very fact that our center is the only one of this kind in Yugoslavia, namely, the only institution specializing in this specific branch of psychology and counseling, is surely one of the reasons for permanent increase in the number of clients using the services of the center. Our four year long experience tells us that the above-mentioned alternative would be a good way of solving existing problems. In the period from May 1997 to June 2001, 9705 individual/family counseling sessions were held in the center. The enclosed records show that the number of clients increases each month. The number of over 400 therapy/counseling sessions per month has already been reached.

The very idea of opening new similar centers involves thinking about staff, namely, specialists of different helping professions (psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, theologians, defectologists…) who would work in these centers, adopting the postulates of pastoral counseling. In October 1999, the center founded “School for Orthodox Bases of Pastoral Counselling”. School participants are final-year students of theology, psychology, medicine and future social workers. The goal of the school is to integrate the Church into the development of secular society, introduce future professional helpers to Christian norms and values and make it possible for the members of different groups of professional helpers to get to know each other through joint work and theology and psychology–related activities. It becomes quite clear that this type of education cannot be limited to a certain period of time (one or two academic years). On the contrary, it is something that is intended to last in the future, or more precisely, as long as there is the need for such kind of help in solving different problems.

Naturally, the need for such kind of help is not limited to one region (the Belgrade-Karlovci Archdiocese), because the problems the center deals with are, more or less, present in all areas, both urban and rural. Users of the services offered by our center are not just from Belgrade. They come from other parts of Serbia, Montenegro and even from the Republic of Srpska. That’s why we came up with the idea that it would be very good to have similar counselling facilities in these regions as well. On 19 April 2001, the Montenegro – Archdiocese decided to establish Spiritual – Counseling Center “St. Basil of Ostrog” in Podgorica, which marked the next step in the process of widening the range of our activities. The new center will be founded on the same principles as its Belgrade counterpart.

In addition to its counselling and educational programs the center launched the project called “Mission”.

We were guided by the words of Apostle Paul: “And turned I to the Judean as a Judean to win them to my side: to those under the law as ruled by the law; to those outlawed turned I as an outlaw, although I am not to God outlawed, but am I in the law of Christ, to win to my side those who are out of law. To the weak turned I as a weak, to win them to my side: I was everything to everybody to save who I can”…(1.Kor.9.20-22).

Since the Center, from its onset started the activity of linking (psychology and theology, medicine, social work, pedagogy and church experience) it was only natural that the expansion of activity aspired to connect to some other fields of human knowledge, too.

There are various activities included, such as workshops named “Conversations about religion”. They came following last year’s generation of students, most of whom from other faculties (medicine, psychology, soc.work) who wanted to either gain elementary knowledge of religion, or learn more about it. Group consists of 40 – 50 participants, and the themes vary from basic religiogious issues and it’s application in every day’s life, to very complex theological questions. The relations between the Church and the State, applying Holy Fathers’ norms in everyday spiritual strangle – were the first subjects discussed. The very structure of these workshops usually is: directed discussion leading toward as much as possible concrete conclusion of a discussed issue. The goal is to be able to apply the acquired learning into day-to-day living faith, share it with the others and establish it as the foundation of personal and professional life. These dialogs take place once a week.

Public lectures were held in various cultural centers, scientific institutions and schools. Lectures were delivered by Serbian Orthodox Church dignitaries and eminent foreign and local experts in the field of pastoral psychology.

Members of our staff were invited to take part in TV and radio shows focusing on the problems that the Center and the School deal with.

We also established a web center which includes a complete Internet presentation, regularly updated with the latest news about the activities of the center and reading material on pastoral psychology. The most important part of this activity is establishing this type of communication with all the people interested in the services offered by the center.

COUNSELLING

Our concept of pastoral counseling is derived from Orthodox frame of reference, based on ontological theology and patristic anthropology. According to our opinion, pastoral counseling can’t be separated from spiritual guidance and Liturgical life.

Holistic attitude considers all three aspects of human being : body, soul and spirit.

Psychotherapy is aimed towards solving the problems of psychological and bodily nature. Moreover, it is often incapable to cope with spiritual dimensions of human being. Paradox is that psychology, in recent development, became the science without the subject : out of soul. We have developed experimental disciplines in psychology, coping with various aspects of behavior, cognitive processes, unconsciousness, but a whole soul and spirit are missing.

Therefore, the basic aim of our pastoral counseling is to move from psychotherapy to spiritual therapy which, on the other side, can’t be separated from the Liturgy as the center of our lives. In Orthodox ontological theology, Liturgy means community, and there is no community without The Holly Communion which is the center of our spiritual life. Confession, as the Holly Sacrament, is realized as the specific process of spiritual therapy, aimed to gain freedom from passions. According to our spiritual inheritance, dealing with passions means dealing and limiting the source of sins. The sin is just a symptom of underlying passion. So, there is no use of punishing the sinner: the bottom line is to guide him towards truly repentant. Spiritual father doesn` t forgive, he gives forgiveness.

When we are talking about spiritual guidance inseparable from Church, Church is realized in eschatological way, like the Body of Christ. All our activities, all our practice are the part of prolonged Liturgy. Everything leads to Liturgy, which is consider like constant and never ending process.

It’s not rare that our clients have resistance towards church, realized like religious organization. At the same time, they have no doubt in Church as the Body of Christ.

The task of psychotherapist in our Center is to help client solving the psychological problem in order to prepare him to the next level, which is always the level of spiritual guidance and incorporation in the living Liturgy.

By making priests part of our team, we provide spiritual guidance through Confession which leads to Communion.

The basic psychological assumptions of our approach are derived from the work of early Fathers. For example : Personality concept of Capadocian Fathers and the concept of Cross.

Therefore, the human being is realized as a Personality only in relation toward God and other human beings. It means that we always have to bare in mind two dimensions of the human Cross : vertical one – relation to God and horizontal one – relation to our neighbours. The bottom line of our pastoral counseling is that the most important therapeutic tool of psychotherapist is his personal style. Therapist acts more with what he really is, than what he says.

Neither all of our clients are believers, nor we force them to declare themselves in such a way. Therapist is not the rapist. Personal style, personality, real belief in resurrection and joy are more effective than anything else.

Source: Orthodox Pastoral Counseling Center in Belgrade

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